Hand-in-Hand mentorship bridges gaps for struggling Idaho families

July 2024 · 3 minute read

The local organization Hand-in-Hand Family Mentorship works to keep families together and create relationships within communities. They say their goal is to provide support and encouragement to those struggling.

Hand-in-Hand Family Mentorship started after being a foster parent and forming relationships with biological parents. McCauley said she found out how some families ended up in certain situations, and explained some parents just needed a little extra help.

McCauley said, "There were certainly cases where the children had to be removed from the parents, that it was a dangerous or risky situation for them to remain but then we also had situations where the parents were very loving, very committed. They were struggling but their heart was completely with their children."

After connecting with other foster parents McCauley learned some of them had similar experiences of biological parents needing an extra set of hands. She began asking the question that started Hand in Hand Family Mentorship. When it's possible and safe, is there a way to prevent removals and keep families together?

McCauley said she brought her idea to the legislature. She said, "I shared this idea, this concept of mentorship for those families who are really struggling. Asking if we can connect them with these positive relationships."

The idea was backed by the legislature, and since they started in 2019 the growing number of referrals and people using their services shows the impact of friendship and having someone in your life to help give positive direction.

McCauley said, "These mentors are volunteers. They care about what happens to people and that goes a long way in helping someone find stability and feel anchored into a community."

Mentors are often paired with someone who has shared experiences, some have children with developmental disorders or are struggling raising teenagers.

McCauley said, "They need advice they need people who have been down the road who have had experiences, who knows what it's like to raise children, it's not easy, and they they need that guidance."

Some mentors don't have similar experiences but are there as advisors, and to give resources. Access to financial help, mental health help, and organizational tips are just a few of the resources available.

At the end of the day, the bonds and true friendships made are what Valerie McCauley says sets Hand in Hand Family Mentorship apart.

She said, "That's the advantage of what we provide over a governmental program is it's very authentic, it's very organic."

Hand in Hand Family Mentorship is always looking for people who want to help, whether that is through donations, mentoring, or joining the program yourself. You can find more on their website HERE.

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